Sexy September is the challenge to have sex with your partner every day for the entire month of September. Yes, thirty days of physical intimacy!
Five reasons to participate in Sexy September:
There are probably hundreds of reasons for upping your sex life. We’ve narrowed down five of our favorites that might persuade you to join the Sexy September challenge.
Rekindles passion and romance
Research shows that having sex more often can actually increase sex drive and libido levels in some people. That means, the more sex you have, the more sex you want.
After engaging in sex on a daily basis for a month, you may notice that you and your partner have a greater desire for each other and enhanced physical intimacy.
Additionally, having sex more frequently can assist in increasing sexual stamina. Look at it like training for a marathon. Increasing the frequency of sex literally reignites burnt out flames. Be prepared for the heat!
Creates opportunities to try new things
Thirty days of sex is thirty opportunities to revisit those honeymoon days and do a little experimenting. Go wild. Change up locations. Kitchen. Garage. Floor. Wherever. We actually had customers who went to the garage and had sex in the back of their car just to cross something off their bucket lists.
Experiment with various positions (and toys). Your bedroom is a land of freedom for enjoying one another’s bodies and pleasuring one another however you desire. Always be respectful about one another’s feelings on sexual acts and be considerate of what you’re both comfortable with.
To keep it fresh over the thirty days and to have additional fun and excitement, consider putting thirty ideas in a hat and draw one out every day. Take turns each day picking an idea. It’ll seem like a daily reward or treat for you two – like a love making lottery.
Prioritizes your time with your partner
Knowing you’re going to be intimate every single day of the month guarantees one on one time with your partner every day too. For the busy couple who let work, kids, and other obligations take a higher place over their mate, this guaranteed time can help prioritize your partner.
While the idea of scheduled sex may seem unromantic to some, there’s something wonderfully safe and comforting about knowing you will get some alone time with your partner today.
Some customers reported feeling excited at work knowing they had another day of Sexy September to look forward to – that it put them in a better mood and helped the work day go by more easily. Others reported less arguments because they were in better moods and spent more time communicating after sex.
Allows you to bond as a couple
Sex releases oxytocin – known as the “bonding” hormone. It’s the same hormone released by nursing mothers to help bond them to their infant children. That means when you and your partner have sex, there is a chemical reaction that helps to bond you to one another.
This bonding scientifically makes you closer to one another and happier as a couple.
Relieves stress
Orgasms release endorphins which make you feel happy. Endorphins also help relieve headaches and pain. Skip the Tylenol and jump into bed instead.
In addition, physical exertion also counts as a workout. Sex even helps you sleep better at night. We worked with a couple who swore sex was better than melatonin when they were struggling to go to sleep.
Excuses?
Thirty days of sex is a commitment, and you and your partner are worth it. Take this challenge seriously and do not skip days. We know you’ll be tired. We know you’ll have excuses. We know you “just did it yesterday!” Fix your mind on fulfilling this challenge and enjoy the results of it. This is not to be a chore but an intentional time of improving your relationship.
Of course, if someone gets sick or injured, you should be respectful of your partner. Cuddling, spooning, or a back rub could serve as a substitute on this day. It’s still physical touch and very romantic.