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CBT - Cock & Balls Torture

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CBT - Cock & Balls Torture

Don't Force Anything   Using or wearing a cocktoy or cockring should be pleasurable. Select an item that is comfortable. It can be snug but not too tight as to cut off blood flow. Do not force a cockring that is too small or wear a cocktoy that is too heavy.   Be Careful of Sudden Moves The penis or scrotum can be injured by sudden blows. In the case of the erect penis, sudden changes in position, sudden jerks to the side or bending of the penis can rupture veins, cause swelling and pain. To alleviate pain, use ice...

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Catheters

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Catheters

A catheter is a slender tube made of rubber or plastic and is inserted into the penis to the bladder. Once in place, the person in whom it is inserted will have no control over his urinary function. If the catheter is left open, the bladder will drain completely. If the tube is clamped off, he cannot urinate even if he wants to. Catheters are used in sex play to heighten pleasure. Precautions  Engage with someone who is experienced, careful, cares about you and takes the precautions mentioned below. Carelessness can result in severe infection, injury or pain.  Even if...

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Introduction to BDSM

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Introduction to BDSM

Classically, BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism (Sadism and Masochism). Without replacing the original categories, Domination and Submission were added later. BDSM means different things to different people. Depending on preferences, most people participate in one or two interests, rather than all of the categories.   BDSM is different from most expectations. Between stereotypes, porn, and Hollywood movies, there's a lot of misconceptions about BDSM. Short of attending a workshop or visiting a dominatrix, the best way to learn more about it is to do some research. Just like with regular sex, if you want to be good at it,...

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Why Bite the Fruit?

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Why Bite the Fruit?

What if we choose to explore our sensuality and sexuality with heightened awareness? When Adam and Eve bite the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge, they become self-aware, no longer oblivious to their nakedness. They begin to see the world as it truly is.   Should this allegory be about sexual instruction, then the term bite the fruit is a euphemism for a sexual epiphany. We bite the fruit to become enlightened. We make ourselves available to a new way of thinking, a new perspective or attitude about our passions, about pleasure and intimacy. We consciously move towards love, eroticism...

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