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BTF answers your questions: How do I 'loosen up' for my boyfriend?

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BTF answers your questions: How do I 'loosen up' for my boyfriend?

Question from a real customer:I need advice on what items to get. I am 40 yo gay guy who has lived in closet and slowly coming out. I have a boyfriend who I had a great sexual relationship with years ago and we have fallen back in love and he is moving back to the area so we can be together but I need to get ready for him. I am total bottom and he is total top but I haven’t been fucked in the ass in years. What should I get to prepare my ass, are there belts that...

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Bite The Fruit Anal Toys Will Make Your Booty SMILE from Cheek-To-Cheek!

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Bite The Fruit Anal Toys Will Make Your Booty SMILE from Cheek-To-Cheek!

By Jenny's Dating Advice (Posted with Permission) If you have a butt hole, and if you’re a living being then you have at least one of them attached to your booty, then you really should consider getting yourself some of the best anal sex toys to play with it. I know all of you “straight” men reading this are thinking to yourselves that anal sex toys are strictly for gay men, and I know that all of you ladies reading this are thinking to yourselves that the only women who use anal play toys are “sluts”, and in both cases...

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Bringing Up the Rear

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Bringing Up the Rear

Anal sex is still a taboo subject although it’s increasingly a popular sexual activity. Regardless of sexual orientation, genitals or body type, anal sex can be enjoyed by anyone. However, for many, the anus is a dirty area that should never be touched during sex. Maybe you imagine painful penetration or fecal matter ruining the mood. In reality, experimenting with anal play can be an incredibly pleasurable experience for both partners. Understanding the risks, rewards, and proper strategy is important if you wish to try anal sex. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), anal sex is...

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Sexual secrets we keep from our partners

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Sexual secrets we keep from our partners

Let’s chat for a moment about the kind of sexual secrets which some people keep from their spouse or partners. Why? We believe that secrets of any sort undermine intimacy and the potential for growth or deepening of connection in a relationship. Sexual secrets might actually be more detrimental to the trust that is necessary in cultivating a lasting bond of love and acceptance.   Fetishes Generally speaking, a sexual fetish can be anything which produces sexual arousal. Commonly, this can be leather, rubber, lingerie, underwear, boots, high heels, feet, breasts or other body parts. Fetishes can attach to anything...

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Vaxxed, waxed and ready to spend: ‘Hot Vax Summer’ heats up businesses

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Vaxxed, waxed and ready to spend: ‘Hot Vax Summer’ heats up businesses

By Emily Davies (for the Washington Post, Posted with Permission) Experts and friend groups alike are fawning over “Hot Vax Summer,” or what they expect to be a months-long party full of first dates, packed bars and other previously forbidden activities made possible by mass vaccinations. That anticipation has driven up contraception sales, sent liquor sales through the roof and flushed salons with cash as people clamor to be “vaxxed and waxed.” The result is an economic engine for some of the businesses most damaged by the coronavirus pandemic, which, after a year of isolation, are now flourishing thanks to...

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